SHEREEN WINGO

I have practiced law on two continents. While there may be stark differences between the two legal systems (and there are), there are also some very glaring similarities. All parties in a divorce are going through a grieving process, and yes, that also includes the person who has initiated the action.

I advise my clients to view a divorce as a chapter in their lives. This chapter may not be of our choosing, and it is that component of a divorce that causes so much emotional pain. Divorce, like many other things in life, is a journey. My role is to accompany you on this journey and prepare you for the terrain you will encounter, so you can emerge as a different person, ready for your next chapter in life. Yes, there will be a next chapter!

Most importantly, before you begin your journey, you must know that your chosen attorney is the correct fit for you. This may not be quite the Cinderella and slipper story, but you get where I am going. Divorce is not a ‘one size fits all’ event. I encourage you to speak to more than one attorney before making such an important decision. The relationship between a client and their attorney is quite sacrosanct and should never be entered into lightly without first determining whether the end goals and the means of acquiring them are shared by both parties.

The only way you can know if an attorney is right for you is to talk to them. Yes, an old-fashioned conversation! This should not be with their secretary, para-legal, or assistant, but with them personally. You should not feel rushed, embarrassed, or as if you are a mere appointment on a calendar. To emphasize the importance of this step, I offer a thorough initial consultation to address your concerns. This session is, and always will be, free of charge.